What is VETTED by The Table For 12?
VETTED by Table For 12 is a members-only, human-vetted community for accomplished, grounded professionals who want to build real friendships, romantic relationships, or business connections with others who share a love of great food and international travel.
Who Is It For?
This membership works best for people who are proactive and value in-person connection. Our members are established in their lives and careers, curious, and comfortable reaching out to make plans — for friends, dating, or business.
Most already have active social lives and simply want to expand their circles with peers who share similar interests, values, and life stages. The community is most rewarding for those who participate actively rather than passively observe, and for those who genuinely love great food and restaurants.
How much does membership cost?
Membership is $1,500 annually and auto renews each year. Renewal may be disabled at any time to avoid the next billing cycle. All membership fees are non-refundable for any reason. Dinners and events incur an additional separate cost.
What does membership include?
Exclusive access to our members only platform - of 100% vetted members
Access to browse members in any city - there are no tiered memberships
Unlimited direct introductions upon request - from VETTED admins
Access to our annual flagship in person members only event - designed to bring the entire vetted community together in one location
Invitation to attend any bonus events that we host - in any city
Member perks and brand offers from high-end brands that align with our community’s lifestyle.
Is there an income requirement to join?
There is NO income requirement to join as we review each application holistically with overall fit prioritized. That being said, our members typically earn $200-250k+ annually. This tends to align with the dining and travel budgets common within the community and the level of experiences they seek.
How does it work?
1 | Apply & get reviewed by a human
Every application is personally reviewed for professionalism, alignment, and overall fit. We do not use AI to review applications. We accept approximately 25% of applicants. Decisions are sent within 7–10 business days.
2 | Access our private members-only directory
Once accepted, you’ll be granted access to our private LinkedIn member group. Browse profiles as you wish, reach out directly to members you see fit, and check out any bonus in person events we are hosting.
3 | Request unlimited introductions
See someone interesting and don’t want to have to send a message on your own? Ask us. We make unlimited direct introductions when there's mutual interest. No algorithms. No swiping. Just a real human introduction — making meeting each other easier. Since the community is highly curated, members are generally comfortable connecting right away and do not have an automatic wall of suspicion up (as with other platforms).
4 | Meet in person — on your own schedule
Members connect online first and meet in person on their own terms — often over great food at restaurants they haven’t been able to get their current group to go to.
To support online connections we host an annual all-members gathering once per year and we host occasional bonus in person events in cities where we see very strong engagement.